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Here are few things to expect while dating a divorce man: Finally, if you plan on marrying a divorced man and want to have children, do not complain that there will be less money for your household because he pays child support.You knew about his obligations to his children before you married him.I feel like getting married and divorced so young completely changed my perspective on what I wanted out of a partner.I needed someone who would be there to help pick up the pieces when stuff went completely sideways.I whole heartedly agree men (and women) should pay child support and such. When I married K I thought it was great that he not only had his kids all the time, but he NEVER had any problems handing money over for thier needs and care.But When I started seeing that she wasnt contributing her share to the kids then using them for more..... The kids were wearing grandmas hand me downs and no coats but she was going on ALOT of trips with friends.
After he moved in with the tramp he no longer picks them up for weekend visits, instead he comes during the week (every other week) takes them out to dinner and spends a whole hour with them--dad of the freakin' year!! So the only thing she can bitch about is the no money thing--becuz he's paying support and after I get thru with him on the sale of this house--he'll be taking the loss on our house to which will leave him in the hole big time and gee--do ya think she'll want to pay to get him out of debt!! Better luck to her, becuz I'm glad I'm thru with his sorry ass, just wish I was done with him forever!!
If you are dating a divorced man with children, you need to fully understand what you are getting yourself into.
It irks me when women date a divorced man and then complain that their boyfriend is paying too much child support and alimony. You have to expect that if your boyfriend has an ex-wife and kids, he must fulfill his financial and parental obligations to his first family.
Also be aware that you will have a whole new set of issues with step children.
There is nothing wrong with dating a divorced man and you can have a wonderful relationship, if you go into it with your eye wide open and know what to expect.
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We hadn’t settled into our careers; we were still figuring out a lot of what we wanted from life.